When In Doubt, Check It Out
Father’s Day reminded me of some of the wonderful men I’ve known who’ve passed on. The one I miss the most is my best friend Jim even though he’s been gone over 20 years. I can’t help but believe he might still be with us if had done just one thing: check it out.
Jim started having chest pain at Thanksgiving Dinner; he told his wife that he was just tired and stressed from the holidays. He actually went to work on the following Monday, but as the week went on, he felt worse and worse. He was having a heart attack for nine days! By the time his family insisted on calling an ambulance on the following Saturday, it was too late. He died in the ER.
When in doubt, check it out. That’s where the phrase came from, although the symptoms in Jim’s case were clear. It doesn’t apply only to chest pain or other symptoms of a heart attack. If you have blurry vision, a sudden headache, or your face is drooping, that could be a sign of a stroke. Even if the symptoms subside, you have to get them checked out. Better a trip in an ambulance than a hearse.
Jim left behind a family. His wife, three kids, and grandkids needed him desperately at times over the following years; I needed him, too. I want you to be safe and healthy, not the gaping hole left in the family photo. So when in doubt, check it out.
If you haven’t heard my Health Tips for Men, now might be a good time to purchase a copy. There’s more to Jim’s story and nine other health issues that impact men. But what about women? I’ll cover that on Saturday.
What are you prepared to do today?
